Scientific Research Explains :
The Scientific Reason Why Men Chase Particular Women
(And automatically reject or neglect others).
Over the years, Tanya had constantly been told she was "incredible ", "beautiful inside and out ", "gorgeous ", and "total girlfriend material" by the men she'd had relationships with ...
But all those kind and reassuring words actually made her feel worse .
You see the truth is :.
Despite how fantastic they CLAIMED she was, they still weren't CHOOSING to move the relationship forward with her.
Which meant those men were either lying to her , or there was something else she was doing wrong : something so repulsive that they could not bring themselves to continue with her.
"It made me feel unworthy " she told us . "Why am I never ever enough for the guys I deeply want ?".
"All I want is for someone to pick me".
This fundamental question of what makes a man pick a certain partner while not feeling it with others has plagued women for all of history .
Today, science may finally have the answer .
According to brand-new research released in the academic journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men do not choose women based on "rational reasons".
As relationship coach Clayton Max explained to us, "It's not about checking the boxes on his checklist of what makes his 'perfect relationship '. And a woman can not convince men to want to be with her".
The point is , Max states , when a woman attempts to convince a man , put pressure on him , or show him how amazing she is, it's likely to backfire, as behaviors like this signal the exact opposite of what makes a man absolutely sure she is it for him.
"The truth is" according to Max, "The decision process for guys is about one thing and one thing only .
They pick women who make them feel that instinctive emotion of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have discovered that infatuation comes from a primitive instinct deep within the brain
When a guy's infatuation response is ON , it makes no difference if she has the characteristics that he previously identified as wanting .
A woman could be totally wrong for him, however he'll make time for her. He'll move cities for her . He will do what is necessary to be a couple .
This is all because the Infatuation Instinct literally causes him to ignore everything else except for wanting to be with her .
So how does a woman activate a man's Infatuation Impulse ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire for her he's willing to do absolutely anything to convince her how much he wants her?